HOLAA Loves: A dialogue about how we experience sex of an eclectic electric nature (Storify and pictures)

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We brought together women of from Zimbabwe, Kenya and South Africa of different ages, relationship statuses and sexual orientations. We wont lie, sometimes we were kind of scared that things would get a little too lit. The conversation centred around how we learn about our sex, how the conversations we have in our youth affects our […]
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HOLAA Loves: Free Space/#PleaseHer dialogue – Creation of a space to speak sex with Mbongomuffin and Iranti Org

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We recently partnered with the amazing Mbongomuffin to host a space for Iranti Org, in Johannesburg entitled “Queer” Safe Sex – ”It’s time for women* to talk about SEX” Iranti sought to create ‘A day about politics and the womxn’s body and its intersection with sexual health. The women’s* body is a politic that has evolved […]
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I am tired of bad sex

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By Ruby Woo I am tired of bad sex. Now don’t get me wrong: throughout my twenties, I have had some of the most adventurous and thrilling sexual experiences . But this period also came with some very awkward, uncomfortable and downright dis-pleasurable sexual encounters. And unfortunately, for many women dating cisgender straight men, this […]
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