*This post was updated to take out the problematic things that were in it. Thank you so much to all those who call us out on our f**kery, because that’s how we grow and don’t spread bad ideas like a bad cold. Never feel shy to call us out. Ever. Thank you for those who […]
By ‘Women who sleep with women’ A few women tell they thought about during sex with their lovely female partners: ‘Sex’ ‘Am I pleasing my partner as much as they are pleasing me?’ ‘Terrible, terrible things.’ ‘She is screaming and moaning…wait…is she faking it?’ ‘What’s on the grocery list this month?’ ‘…*blank mind*…’
By Pamstar Losing a lover is one of the hardest things I had to go through, being the 1st time it happened is just so draining and so hard. That is mainly the reason of my silence in the blog, hope you have not forgotten about it! It’s been a rough couple of weeks, my […]
By Siya Mcuta The sound of a guitar shook me so deeply that I felt myself tremble. As I allowed the music to take over and filter through my body I felt scared. Like it was happening all over again… I became a victim ,again. When the chords filled my ears they took me back, […]
By Velvet Storm I wanted her so much. Lust burned inside me. Looking at her made me think of silks. Of chocolate ice cream. Of ice cubes. Of the way sorbet melts in your mouth. I was literally dying of longing.I loved my husband, dearly. He was amazing in bed. But the fact of the […]
By Miss Pamstar That’s what most women are saying after they have learnt about the myths and facts of lesbian (woman to woman) sex. While most women find out the hard way by being infected or affected by either STI’s or HIV and AIDS. Funny enough others still think woman to woman sex is safe. […]
“You are either alive and proud or you are dead, and when you are dead, you can’t care anyway.” ~ Bantu Steve Biko Today HOLAA! remembers Bantu Steve Biko the father and founder of the Black Consciousness movement. A movement born out of a sense of indignation towards the institutional and systematic racist violence that […]
"What do women do in bed? Doesn't it get boring?’ Senseless questions that need a sensual answer.
How can you not quiver when you think of all the things a woman can do?
How can you not want to spend that extra moment of longing whilst you think and imagine of the tastes and sounds and visuals that come with two women clutching, writhing, moaning, scratching, bonding…coming.
“To deny sex is to deny life. To reject art is to impoverish yourself, rejecting pleasure and growth. To accept sex and art together is to add to oneself, to be positive instead of negative” HOLAA is calling for women in the continent to tap into their inner sensual, sexual, beautiful and erotic selves and […]
By Lame I had a chat with a friend the other day. A chat I wish I could have had with you. I wanted to say I am so sorry. I am sorry that I never gave you a chance, never gave us a chance. In all truth, you were the perfect girlfriend. And I […]