15 Lesbian rules to break

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By Barbara Ward for KitschMix The opinions about stereotypes are all over the board. Some people think that stereotypes exist to keep us down, and some people think that stereotypes exist to make categorization easier. Personally, I feel that they can be used for your benefit or against it, depending on how they’re applied. Certainly, […]
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After the End

By Dyke Road/ @dykeroadbaby And after its all over, things start to happen differently. Things happen exactly as you wanted them to before it was over. Never mind packing up and moving out being the official goodbye. Staying in touch is cordial and falling into old habits easier. New behaviours, because maybe the goodbye didn’t […]
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HOLAA! Activities and Projects

Below are a list of our grants, activities and publications:  ‘#PleaseHer with #SexySafety’ Safe sex and pleasure workshop with a safe sex expert and a kink expert: These formed part of a safe sex and pleasure series as the flagship activity. The workshop gave women gathered knowledge on safe sex and pleasure between Women Who […]
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I didn’t know…

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By HomoSenegalensis It’s been over a month and my soul still hurts the same. They say it takes time to get over things like this. I had naively hoped that it would get easier after a month. But I didn’t know. I didn’t know the pain would get worse with time. I didn’t know I […]
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