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Hello HOLAA hot spot expert,
I have been in a relationship for a few years now (two and a half years to be exact) and I am…over it. It is not that I do not love my partner it is just we seem to be in different places. Everything from the where we see ourselves in 5 years to what things we want in bed. I know that it is in the end but I have no idea how to make that final jump. How do I cut the cords and make the break up happen? I need to get out but I am too lazy/scared/stuck to do it.
Need To Be Single
Dear HOLAA Hot Spot wise person,
I just found out that my partner of 18 months is engaged to someone else. I found out in a wedding announcement in our local paper. She had told me she was single and that the man was her cousin. I am heart broken. She has said that we can still be together, it is only she will now be living with a new roommate after the wedding. She has assured me that we are still a couple and in love. I want to believe her.
Should I consider being in this polygamous relationship?
Hi HOLAA in a Hot Spot expert,
I have a problem. I can’t go down on my girlfriend, whom I have been with a year, but every time I see my ex we have sex and I go down on her. I wish I knew why but this is just how it goes. Why is this happening and how can I fix this?
Horny and Hungry