Black Women Be Like and ourselves live tweet quotes about black women faking orgasms under the tag #BlackWomensBigO (Storify)

We slid into the DMs, the whatsapps, private convos and all the intimate spaces to ask women around the continent about whether they had faked orgasms. We got some awesome solid quotes and we loved it! Here they are. Here are some other storifies that we have done. Here is the podcast that inspired this […]
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The Sex Problem

By Tatenda There was something about waking up that never quite agreed with her but she did it anyway, it was part of the contract of being human. This morning, like many others, she woke up smelling like somebody else and trying desperately to silence the accusatory voices in her head. Her only challenge was […]
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So, I Let a Guy Fuck Me

African Sexualities, African Queer Women, LGBTI
By Dyke Road/@dykeroadbaby So I let a guy fuck me. It wasn’t cloth-ripping or somewhat perverted. It wasn’t hot in a twisted way sex like Frankie and Jay’s on Lip service. There was nothing hot about it. All that it was, was low. I wan’t even hot before I broke down and cried. I didn’t cry in front of him. […]
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