I am tired of bad sex

By Ruby Woo I am tired of bad sex. Now don’t get me wrong: throughout my twenties, I have had some of the most adventurous and thrilling sexual experiences . But this period also came with some very awkward, uncomfortable and downright dis-pleasurable sexual encounters. And unfortunately, for many women dating cisgender straight men, this […]
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HOLAA, African sexualities, LGBTI, coming out,
By Sibu Malungu I am awake Dreams have been shattered Thank you I am grateful I am in pain My hope for us is gone But it’s okay Now I can fully embrace another Damn, I am here again? Lying to myself When I know that my heart may never heal My hope may never […]
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Black Women Be Like and ourselves live tweet quotes about black women faking orgasms under the tag #BlackWomensBigO (Storify)

We slid into the DMs, the whatsapps, private convos and all the intimate spaces to ask women around the continent about whether they had faked orgasms. We got some awesome solid quotes and we loved it! Here they are. Here are some other storifies that we have done. Here is the podcast that inspired this […]
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