Love language

By HomoSenegalensis *Trigger warning: sexual assault As of late, my lover has this habit of calling me in the middle of the night “just to say goodnight”, but that of course always ends up in long conversations. A couple of weeks ago, we talked about language. To be precise, I went on a long monologue […]
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HOLAA Loves: Talking sex with African parents with Mbongomuffin and Black Women Be Like (Podcast)

Have you ever tried to have that conversation with your parents. About squishy bits, orgasms, wetness, love making, bumping uglies, that sexy time? Was it successful? Probably not and if it was congratulations to YOU! In this podcast we break down the experiences of speaking about sex with African parents and why sometimes, it just […]
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Crushed cans and broken glasses

By Lickle They stop and stare I hear their “silent whispers” They say I’m a disgrace to society They say I’m fast tracking my way to hell. Fake friends keep their distance afraid I might derail them from their straightness They don’t understand how a woman can love another woman They don’t understand how my […]
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