Ten Confessions of a Demisexual

By ‘Aimee’ Demisexuality: A person who does not experience sexual attraction until they form a strong emotional connection with someone, often in a romantic relationship. Confession #1: I can’t hold legitimate conversations with my friends about relationships and sex because they just aren’t the same for me. Confession #2: My involuntary celibacy is a side effect of my […]
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15 Lesbian rules to break

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By Barbara Ward for KitschMix The opinions about stereotypes are all over the board. Some people think that stereotypes exist to keep us down, and some people think that stereotypes exist to make categorization easier. Personally, I feel that they can be used for your benefit or against it, depending on how they’re applied. Certainly, […]
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Soul Mates

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By Nyar Afrika “I raised you better Mpho! You will not bring a woman into my house!” “But Ma, I love her!” “Bullshit! What do you know about love? Does the Bible say that we should love men or our fellow women? I am ashamed of you! You are a disgrace!” “Ma!” “Quiet Mpho! I […]
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Qu’est-ce qu’une lesbienne? (What Is A Lesbian- French Translation)

This is a piece from our publication called Emergence download it  here. Here is the English version.  Par Kagure Mugo C’est quoi ça encore une lesbienne ?  Pour répondre à cette question, il te faudra expliquer à ta grand-mère la « théorie queer », la « diffusion » des concepts des droits de humain et des « instruments internationaux » qui nous […]
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