For the timid one

By Anon This one is for the timid girl, the naïve child. It is for the me of last year. The girl who was quick to say, “I don’t trust anyone” but still blindly gave her trust away like free hand-outs. The girl who got a stinging notice that the community she thought was hers […]
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Ten Confessions of a Demisexual

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By ‘Aimee’ Demisexuality: A person who does not experience sexual attraction until they form a strong emotional connection with someone, often in a romantic relationship. Confession #1: I can’t hold legitimate conversations with my friends about relationships and sex because they just aren’t the same for me. Confession #2: My involuntary celibacy is a side effect of my […]
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HOLAA loves: Hope and Cathy

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Sometimes we are nosy and want a peek into the relationships and lives of others. So we asked Hope and Cathy about their interesting relationship after we stumbled on it online. They had this to say about this love and relationship: My girlfriend and I have been together for the last 20 months, after we met […]
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