Why can I not be masculine presenting and squirt? Why does my dyke swag mean that I have to initiate sex? When is it my turn to have the dildo inside me? When can I have my turn with the strap on? Can I be a pillow princess and rock these dope jeans?
These are some of the questions that come with being a woman who sleeps with other women…whilst being dressed in converse sneakers/baggy jeans/ waistcoats etc. How the world sees you when you have your clothes on can affect what someone (or some people) expect from you with your clothes off. We sat down and spoke about the politics of presenting and pleasure with two incredible women from Zambia and Botswana. We chatted about how the way they looked to the outside world affected what happened in between the sheets. Also, they really want to be on the receiving end of pleasure too.
They really do.